What Do My Dreams Mean?

You don't have to force yourself to stop thinking about your ex just because your dreaming of him, your subconscious is actually responsible for most of your dreams, so things that you push to the back of your mind resurface in your dreams while you sleep. Most of your dreams are also not necessarily literal, so dreaming of an ex-lover or boyfriend doesn't mean you like him or you're thinking about him, it could mean you enjoyed an intimacy with that person that you want to relive, but not necessarily with him (he's just a trigger for that emotion). It could also suggest you have concerns about your past and what effect it has or might have on your current situation, and these type of dreams (distressing or unwanted ones) are usually your mind's way of coping with and sorting out all your thoughts and emotions. Sleep serves to placate the mind and replenish the body. And if it makes you feel any better, I dream of my ex too and I'm completely in love with my current lover (We're engaged). You might also want to keep in mind that specific things or occurences in dreams are symbolic or representative of a general idea or emotion and taking a step back to evaluate the possible meanings in terms of where you're at in life and how you feel about it is the best idea, this approach can help you understand what your dreams are telling you about yourself and how you feel.

I have many dreams with most about my ex, there for a while it upset me. For the simple reason that it was not fair to my boyfriend, but I think that we all have to face the point of letting go at one stage in our lifetime and I think that my time is now. Not to say that my feelings didn't matter just to say that my feelings where very strong and I never really excepting the break-up.
The man in my life is wonderful, we have our issues, but who doesn't. All I know is that he is my future, so in my dreams I am letting go of  my past.

Every dream has some meanings. You can't stop yourself from dreaming a particular dream. It usually happens that the person you have or had strong relationship and about whom you think most comes in your dream.
You have to stop thinking about him and concentrate on other things. Good Luck.

I have been in a long distance relationship for 5 months. My previous partner wasn't ready for a relationship out in the open and i wanted more with him when i met the guy i'm now with. My previous partner did a you don't know what you've got 'til its gone thing...well now 5 months into this present relationship i dream of my previous partner and i together while my boyfriend is sleeping on the side of me...any advice?