Is It Okay With You If There's A Boy Who Loves You But He Don't Like You?

Thats a hard question...there are people in my life that I was very close to...and I still love them to this day...but I don't like them, for one reason or another they did something that I just didn't like, and as time went on it became more and more one of those things I just couldn't tolerate, I still love them, but I don't like them....

It is possible for this to happen you can always love someone but not like them. That person you love may have done something real stupid that becomes annoying and you end up not liking them but you still love them. It is confusing but possible.

I know how you feel. Sometimes there may be a boy in your life who loves you (ya know, almost like a brother-sister bond, or as friends), yet he doesn't like you (as in, have a crush on you). But it's okay; don't let it get ya down. It took me three years to realize that this guy wasn't into me. I had my hopes up only to have them crushed. I kept pretending that one day, maybe, by some miracle he would...but I was only fooling myself. Finally it occurred to me. I convinced myself that I just needed to move on, because you can't force someone to like you. I was really bummed at first, almost depressed. But then I moved on. It's three years after all that sad-chaotic-drama, and we're really good friends! He's awesome, and we hang out a lot, but I'm over him. Sometimes it's just not meant to be. Ya see? Something great came out of a bad situation. So to answer your question: Is it okay for a boy to love you, without liking you? Yes! It's totally fine. Sometimes a really great guy-friend is much better than a boyfriend. Well that's my soap opera for the day. Deeni

Something does not sound right there, sweetie. I honestly do not understand this. Tome, in order to love someone you have to like them to.  Maybe he means that he does not like your personality and your ways or something like that. That is just plain weird. LOL...

Yes. It may be possible to love persons because of relationship or sympathy or many other emotions not bound by reason. But you do not appreciate or like them when you compare their achievements or attributes with others.