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What's The Best Way To Get My Girlfriend In The Mood?

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    Oh, boy.  Well.  Girls are tough for guys to get because guys have a really high connection between thinking about sex and getting physically turned on.  But in girls that connection isn't very strong.  They can think all day about sex without getting wet.  So in order for that process to start, you're probably going to have to touch her.  That's why a backrub is good, because you get the chance to touch some minor erogenous zones (the small of the back, the waist, the hips, the back of the neck, and the shoulders) and show her how gentle and firm your hands are.  All the while, make your intentions known.  This is done well by establishing a romantic atmosphere (you flowers and candles people, you know what it's about) and by touching her softly and whispering little romantic nothings in her ear (the little puffs of air against her ear are also helpful in turning her on).

    There are also certain things you do that turn your girlfriend on, and you might not even be aware of them.  For example, my girlfriend gets giggly when I look at her a certain way, and I didn't even know I was doing it the first time.  Spreading yourself out naked on the bed may seem like a good idea, but I bet you have a pair of boxers or a particular shirt that she really likes to see on you before they come off.  She may like it when you speak in a particular tone of voice, or sing a song.

    The key to getting a girl in the mood is to establish physical and emotional intimacy.  So share your heart with her, tell her how much you love her while your fingers caress her, and let her open up before diving into the hot and heavy stuff.

    Hope that helps.
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    Snarky 

    answered 10 months ago

      Pay close attention first be real casual talk her into watching a funny movie with you you have got to sit in the floor and watch the movie have her sit between your legs midways into the movie play with her hair gently stroke her earlobe kiss on her neck she will say stop and to watch the movie so ease up don't be to aggressive then you pick it up again this time touch her breasts and kiss her neck trust me she will respond to you and you will both be having that later on smoke
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      Sandersdek 

      answered 10 months ago

        Candle lite and rose petals in the bedroom
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        Drummergal 

        answered 1 year ago

        Um, set up a romantic dinner with candles and rose peddles, and then put a blind fold over her eyes, lead her to the bed(make sure the bed has rose peddles on the bed, and candles around the room) and then do your thing
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        Smexygal32 

        answered 1 year ago

        Give them flowers or ring
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        Guest

        Guest 

        answered 6 months ago

          This age old question just tell her how much you need and love her.and need her in your life.and mention all the things that are good between the two of you.and how nice it is being togather..  This should help..                              Take care..
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          Tinaharris 

          answered 1 year ago

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