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I Have A Boyfriend But I Like His Friend, What Do I Do?

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 years now and he has been involved in a car accident and he is hospitalised for 3 months not .. He cant talk or anything. After a while i started liking his friend and i told the guy i did but i donno what to do, and now the guy i like is ignoring me but has also admitted that he likes me but he wont do anything with me because of my boyfriend .

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    You sound like just the girl any guy would want! Loyalty all the way huh? Go for it with his friend and maybe he'll toss you aside and teach you something.
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    Mtapply 

    answered 1 year ago

    Excuse me I thot you were suppose to be helping me other then just judging me .. I guess none of you really know how it is aye and how it feels .. you think I'm just selfish .. If you were in my position I would like to see what you would do.. Ok a person can't control it's feelings ok.. I thot you guys would know that by now .. After all we are all humans..
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    Sammy_777

    Sammy_777

    commented 1 year ago

    Just because I like sum1 else doesn't mean I don't care about my bf .. But from what you wrote me I guess you don't noe anything about it so I'm not even gonna bother... you don't know the whole story so you can't say anything.. But from what I wrote I noe it sound bad .. But it ain't like that .. you dnt noe what I feel and how i think ... I mean after all this is life and sum feelings knt b controled ok no matter how much u want to it's impossible ... Its easy just to judge people u dnt know .. But it not easy to try and put yourselves in their position ... I have been loyal to my boyfriend I guess you don't even know the meaning of that word ... A person like you knt do any beta then just judge .. But it would be much worse if people would be judgin u just like that i would ask u what u think... So dnt aways think you're right .. Coz we all make mistakes ...even the best boyfriend makes mistakes... So b4 u say anythin else i want u to think about how u would feel in my position.
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    Sammy_777

    Sammy_777

    commented 1 year ago

    The answer is : Leave them both..............
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    Ahmad_scb

    Ahmad_scb

    commented 1 year ago

      Your boyfs friend has more sense than you do love! He's not abandoning his mate in his worst hour but you should probably stay away from them both if you're thinking of doing anything. Think of other people, your boyfriend may have a long road of recovery ahead of him and his friends and family have to watch and wait. Stop being so selfish or stay away from them all.
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      Piercedup 

      answered 1 year ago

        This has to be a joke: How insensitive can a person be, you sound like to type of person that feeds on a drama. Oh!!look at my situation how awful for me! The best thing you could do is stay away from him & his friend.

        Pat ,a girl not like you in any way.
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        Pat666 

        answered 1 year ago

        If I was so insensitive I would of gone for the guy by now and left my boyfriend not even b there for him ok.. you don't even know what kind of a girl I am so don't judge me..
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        Sammy_777

        Sammy_777

        commented 1 year ago

        If you truly love your bf you wouldn't be liking his friend while he's hurt and all..It's like his friend your talking about..Your bf needs you && it's best if you just be friend with his friend and leave him alone for now..
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        Kutielious 

        answered 1 year ago

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