Should I Send My Husband Packing For Flirting Too Much?

This is a hard one to answer because we don't know your husband. But being a man i would keep a eye on him. It could be just him trying to feel younger by the attention of a  different women. They could be just friends. I would say if the buttocks had clothes over it then that's not to bad. But if not then you have a big problem. If you push him on this he my feel like you are too controlling. In turn pushing him away from you. Tell him in a non confronting way that (cover buttocks) make you uneasy. Or (uncover buttocks) is not acceptable. One thing is did he show you the text? If he did he may have thought it was a joke and wanted you to laugh with him, so relax.If you found it yourself when watch out.Then i would look for things that didn't fit, like taking phone calls in other rooms or walking away from you to talk. Maybe working late more then before or missing time. Or him wanting to fight with you more. 17 years is a long time to throw away sounds like friends or he likes the attention.Try giving him some more attention at home. If he gets it at home he may not look for it somewhere else.Thus out growing the need to feel need. Good luck.

I don't think you should send him packing if hes only flirting, confront him about it and tell him it bothers you. I tell my boyfriend he can look and the menu he just cant order. And its the same for me. As long as he doesn't touch or exchange anything its cool with me. He also does this thing where he says something good about them but automatically names a couple things wrong with her.