What Can People Do When They Are Bored In A Relationship, And They No Longer Have Anything To Talk About?

Everyone cannot be interesting all the time. All relationships go through a time when there are lulls of all sorts. Think about what drew you together in the first place. This is a time to be honest. Honesty should be used at the outset of a relationship. Otherwise, a person may only pretend to be interested in the interests of the other, but may only be physically attracted to him/her. Be honest about your feelings and talk about that, but not accusingly. Address the problem as a new project and there should be things to talk about and some underlying problem may surface. It's hard to keep emotions under control in these types of conversations, but the solution is to get to the bottom of the problem, not to find out who is to blame. Maybe you're both just tired. Sometimes a relationship can be comfortable when you are just satisfied being together and there is no need for words. Don't expect the other person to be responsible for making your life interesting. Find things to do that interest you. That will make you more interesting and there will be things to talk about again. Let it get natural again without pressuring. Try to be friendly anyway. If you're just dating and you have found it's not working out, be honest and end it as congenially as you can. There are people who are more compatible, and that is what dating is about, finding someone who is a good fit emotionally, mentally and interestwise.

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Have you tried to take up a mutual hobby, pastime, extra curricular activity together? Do the two of you have any fetishes? If so, try combining the two together to get a whole new one to run with.

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I was in the same situation, think of things, talk about your day or what u would like from the relationship, school, family, interest....................hope i helped

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