I Am 15 Years Old, Turning 16 In 3 Months. Am I Too Young To Have Sex? And How Do I Know Who To Lose It To?

YES!!!!! I do believe you are to young for sex at this age! There is absolutely no reason to rush into this now! You have your whole life ahead of you, just enjoy your young life now! DO NOT let your friends pressure you into thinking your not going to be popular if you don't!!!! and don't let a guy make you feel like you have to either!!!

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Yeah I would say you are to young I know peer pressure is definitely kicking in at about this time but it only takes one time for you to get pregnant and that is not a fun trip until your financialy stable and happy with your life but right now No way! Now the best time in the world to Lose it is when your emarried with a person you know your gonna wake right up next to Remember guys come and go daily but once your married and happy that's a beautiful thing God says so too!

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It is good that you are brave enough to ask this question. Having sex at the age of 16 is downright illegal because it involves a minor. In fact, I lost my virginity at the age of 14 which is way too young an age to commit the act. Now that my fiancé and me are planning to get married soon, I regret my hasty decision. There is always a risk of pregnancy. Just imagine the consequences of getting pregnant at this age-the boy will deny himself, you will have to face the embarrassment, you will have difficult in managing your studies. Also the baby will not live a comfortable life. When he grows up, he might get hooked on to drugs or do other bad things because he will have to reconcile with the fact that he did not get the love of his parents. One should also understand that contraceptives are not 100 percent effective. If they break, you could end up pregnant. And how can we fear an ugly giant of a disease known as AIDS? I would advise you to finish high school, go to college and then indulge in sex only after attaining adulthood. Sorry for the fact that I sound preachy, but this is a reality. You need to be wise and practical.

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Yes...Now I thought 16 was way too young...but 13 yes that is out of the ball park....There is no need to rush to go and have sex with somebody regardless if its your boyfriend about you have been dating for 6 months or a couple of years...No...especially at 13...Its just nothing to go and rush into...You have your whole life ahead of you and don't let some guy pressure you into it either..if they do then there not right for you because you should wait and live your life...and go have fun and not worry about having sex right now! it shouldn't be a priority.

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Yes. You are way too young for this. It's a good thing you're thinking about it first instead of taking "the risk" and just moving straight into it.

If you truly didn't care, you would have probably already done it by now so it shows that you care and just need a little help with figuring this out.

If this guy loves you, he will understand, and I'm sure he already does, that is if you've talked to him about it. Your friends shouldn't really get into your relationships either because it's not theirs. And if they cared, they'd let you do what YOU want.

So again, I say yes. You are too young.

And how do you know who to lose it to...Hmm.

That is upto you. But it shouldn't be with someone you keep thinking about whether or not it's right with that person. If you know you want to have sex with that one person, then maybe them. But not if it's a person you keep worrying about and asking yourself "Should I have sex with him?? Or not??". You shouldn't be confused about this question though. It's totally understandable. And you have so long to plan this, so it's okay.

That's all I can say.

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Yes, 15 is too young. But I'm going to assume you're going to do it anyway. Why don't you focus on school? Are you even still in school or have you dropped out because you're more focused on getting laid? Go to school, girl... tax payers don't want to pay for a teenage mother on welfare!

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Yes. You are too young for sex. Your age is only how to develop your career now. You can make friendships with others and discuss this but only for knowledge, do not have sex for practical reasons. If you do this will affect your career.My advice to you is that you please concentrate on your further studies.

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I think the normal age a lot of teenagers start having sex is about 16 years old, if you know you're not ready you need to make a choice. In the end it's all up to you and it's based on your decision. If you think you are truly ready though, you should trust yourself.

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