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Have You Ever Felt That A Best Friend Is Trying To Compete With You?

I.e. Copying your taste in clothes, keeping..

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    I wouldn't say they are trying to compete, I would say they look up to you and want to imitate you, I would take it as a compliment if everyone started dressing like me, you must have good taste in clothes
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    Motherbear 

    answered 1 year ago

    Aww hehe yes that is a good way of looking at it...But its the other side of stuff that gets to me. We are both currently learning how to drive also, and i do feel that it is getting a bit too competitive, just a few comments..maybe im being oversensitive too! There is always that sense of competing. Plus i have recently graduated and still jobless!! Whereas..this friend who did not go to college etc is actually working and its not the best of jobs but still its another reason as there are always comments made like "hurry up and get a job!" which can be really frustrating even if it is said light hearted-ly (if thats a word lol)
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    Est22

    Est22

    commented 1 year ago

    OH YEs! She is really not my best friend but a CLose Flriend..
    I buy a new blouse tomorrow she buys 2
    by a new purse on a brand name tomorrow she has 2 of the same brand
    i like yellow... She hates yelow..etc....


    But i lean..its just that she loves the way i am!
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    Brat82

    Brat82

    commented 9 months ago

    Oh yes! Not my best friend but a close friend! If i love yellow she hates yellow if i buy me a bran name purse tomorrow she gets 2 of the same brand if i wear my hair a certain way she says oh i had it like that yesterday. If i want to go to club.. She said oh i have plans to go to club.. If i say its quiet she says oh its so noisy.. She just likes to compete or give me the opposite.. I dont mind... It shows to me she likes the way i am...
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    Brat82

    Brat82

    commented 9 months ago

      Well, none of my friends compete with me cause there is no competition between us.
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      Deerashad 

      answered 1 year ago

        Yes. Twice. But I won at last of course! ;)
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        Charming 

        answered 1 year ago

        Lol- explain?
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        Est22

        Est22

        commented 1 year ago

        I knew someone will add this kind of comment but I can't explain the full thing for some reason! Hope you understand me. Anyway, if my answer isn't complete for you then you can rate me whatever I deserve.
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        Charming

        Charming

        commented 1 year ago

        I Actually Don't think i ever have cause my friends hate being competitive
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        Thesuperj 

        answered 1 year ago

        Na, never had a lot of friends, I am an individual, and I am too hard to duplicate. Lol
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        Tiggersmom 

        answered 1 year ago

          Yeah, but I was happy for her because she finally seemed happy.
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          Ryanna 

          answered 1 year ago

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