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    What Do I Do When I Fall In Love With My Best Friend, But She Thinks Of Me As Her Brother?

    I met a girl last year and she liked girls so she is a lesbian. She thinks of me as her brother and she is my best friend, but I think I am falling in love with her. She flirts with me a lot but I am afrade to make a move or anything because if i make a wrong move i lose a friend. She knows i like her. How can i tell if she likes me back?

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    Well I think she already likes you, making you her best friend and then fun flirting with you although she knows you like her, But probably she is afraid of the relationship or commitment so she calls you brother. I will suggest that you give your relation more time, may be a year more. Strengthen trust between you, let her be confident of you. By that time may be you will know her more and then you can figure out the way that she likes you or not. Although I am very she already does. But don not hurry in your actions, such situations are sensitive.

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    i think she likes me to....but she says she likes girls she says she is a lesbian...because in the past all guys have treated her badly....she says im the only boy who has ever made her feel good or was ever nice to her. but yea im planin on just keep being her friend and looking out for her and give it time and what happens happens.

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      A lot of girls that like other girls is because somewhere down the line a guy has hurt them so bad they don't want to be hurt like that again, in my opinion anyway. She is learning to trust you, you have been there for a year, and haven't tryed to control her or put her down for what she is. I would sit down and have a talk best friend to best friend and tell her how you feel and let her know if she does not feel the same way you still love the friendship and don't want to loose it. But if she does, what a great thing

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      she already knows i like her. but i told her i wont go push myself on her or nothing because i know about her past...guys have treated her very badly....she was raped when she was younger and got drug into drugs and all that....i help her quit all the drugs and helped her get back on track.

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      I would be up front with her people always keep their true feelings to them selves or look for answers from the wrong sources , she's the one you need to open up to. Try it i think it will bring about more conversation about her sexuality, and if she,s questioning her sexuality it may just give her the outlet she needs

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      meh i talk to her more then any1 she knows exactly how i feel and stuff....i think she just needs more time maby when we are older. besides we are only 16 years old....bfs and gfs dont last long at our age so maby i should wait till we are older because why rush things if i REALY want to be with her forever? she talks about goin to paris with me all the time when we are older she wants to move there with me ^_^. im just ganna give her time. she knows how i feel.

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