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Cool Spot answered Icee Guldiggarz's question

If someone could answer that question they would be making millions. Relationships are complicated. Maybe try another site?

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Cool Spot voted up Yin and Yang's answer

I applaud your enthusiasm for trying to solve a problem but there is no magic pill to get you open up around people. That may just be a part of your personality and why give people/girlfriend a false sense of who you are? Be yourself and words will form.

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Cool Spot thanked star gazing's answer

Did you try crunches instead of sit-ups? On sit ups you have to rock up onto your lower back so that's why it hurts. Crunches just tense your abs but you just lift off shoulder blades. And there's also Leg lifts, planks, russian twists, up-up-down-down (planks while doing name on forearms), push-ups, oblique crunches that … Read more