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Bikergirl Anonymous answered Kailey Lavigne's question

I'm confused too about the term "stay". Is that a suggestion that he wants to stay for a night, a few days or live permanently?

That IS weird .. Hard to not make it so

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Bikergirl Anonymous answered Anonymous' question

No .. I would never send something of such a personal nature knowing someone else WILL read it  .. I would either mail it the conventional way (explaining why it's being sent that way) or I would say what I was trying say to his face .. or .. set up a private and free … Read more

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Bikergirl Anonymous answered Ronald Whitmore's question

Libido is not an exact science .. At least, not for women.  Hormonal influences can change 'desire' .. Most guys wouldn't complain about it...they would just abide, and would be happy about it.

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Bikergirl Anonymous answered Anonymous' question

Sounds rather strange to me too .. I'm not sure why she is being so insistant about this.  I'm thinking she is trying to force you to be more 'lady like' .. At least to the standards she grew up with.  Trouble is, as much as I too complain about 'today's standards' .. Forcing someone … Read more

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Bikergirl Anonymous answered N. Harmonik's question

People complain about change .. Period .. And surprisingly even when it involves their own safety. 

Even those lap belts .. As poor of a design they were also complained about because people didn't like to lose their 'freedom', they didn't want to feel so 'confined'.  The laps belts did nothing more than keep your … Read more

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Bikergirl Anonymous answered Otis Campbell's question

No .. But I would also never consider any engagement ring "pathetic" .. If it was a token of a promise from someone I loved (and all he could afford) I would be happy with a soda can pull tab. 

Anyone who not only thinks their engagement ring is pathetic but further intends to humiliate their … Read more

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Bikergirl Anonymous answered Anonymous' question

You don't have to sugar coat it .. Tell him he is being 'mean' or is 'over reacting' or is simply being a dick.  Tell him how it pisses you off and that's not how he should treat someone he supposedly loves.

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Bikergirl Anonymous answered

Logically .. By the same means as you would judge how anyone "hates".

However .. And having said that .. I feel compelled to also mention .. Don't confuse what you call  "hate" with a parents concern and monumental frustration .. Typically brought on  by the concerning behaviour and attitude of their child.

Short story:

I … Read more

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Bikergirl Anonymous answered Anonymous' question

Perhaps it's time for a family meeting. This may give you an opportunity to give your parents a swift kick into the reality of what is important. This is the kind of "kick" that should start with a hug.

I realize, sometimes couples go through tough times .. Whether it be an argument, a difference … Read more

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Bikergirl Anonymous answered

You can buy that .. The strap on type.

All kidding by aside .. This kind of operation is lifelong, VERY  expensive and would take an enormous personal conviction for you (one I'm thinking you don't have) ..and, did I mention would last a lifetime .. Even after this boyfriend is long gone out of … Read more

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Bikergirl Anonymous commented
I'm nit sure if it was your choice of words or if he simply felt rejected .. to feel you were being "hurtful" .. that's unfortunate that he felt hurt .. but it was necessary. Now that you've cleared the air .. if a friendship continues .. nice .. if not, it was never meant … Read more
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Bikergirl Anonymous answered Nina Varganov's question

I don't think I have an unrealistic need to always be right .. It would be nice though. The world would be at my fingertips .. And that would bring a tremendous responsibility.

If ... I had the Ability to always be right .. I would attain wealth of my own. There would be nothing … Read more