Bikergirl Anonymous
Bikergirl Anonymous answered Anonymous' question

1st .. Texting and insisting or demanding anything is pointless

2nd .. Threatening to take her to court .. Is pointless .. YOU aren't able to do that .. You have no rights in terms of visitation .. AND .. You can't take anyone to court for anything unless you have the money to pay … Read more

Bikergirl Anonymous
Bikergirl Anonymous answered HelpStop AnimalAbuse's question

Why would you want to change her name .. Does she already have one .. That she recognizes?  Seems confusing to start calling her something else..EVERYthing in her life is different now as it is. 

Bikergirl Anonymous
Bikergirl Anonymous answered David Bedard's question

Yeah, I am confused by the 'urgency' .. The polite thing to do would be to treat her with respect. Nothing wrong with just telling her the truth that you would like to remain as friends.  You don't have to rip her world apart by completely humiliating her .. Just be kind.

Bikergirl Anonymous
Bikergirl Anonymous answered

Impossible to say .. His behaviour could be explained by .. Considering HE is YOUR crush .. My guess is you are the one who is staring most of the time .. Your attention towards him makes him uncomfortable and awkward and he simply doesn't know how to handle it.

Instead of playing games about … Read more

Bikergirl Anonymous
Bikergirl Anonymous answered Anonymous' question

Now that is impossible to say with just a 'look' in your general direction. No one can even remotely guess if a guy is looking at you because he feels you are 'interesting' or 'special' or 'different than anyone else in the room' .. But, my guess is .. In high school  most guys are … Read more

Bikergirl Anonymous
Bikergirl Anonymous answered

Well you have to make a grown up decision ..

There are a few things to ponder

1) Do you want to be in a relationship

2) Do you 'love' this guy your are in a relationship with enough to be monogomous

3) Are you too young and uncommited to even BE in a relationship

4) Is the guy … Read more

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Bikergirl Anonymous answered Girl Here's question

People have always been trying to infiltrate Blurtit (like any social site) with spam .. Problem we are experiencing lately is the moderators that are supposed to remove it and keep it in control on a regular basis .. Aren't doing what they are supposed to be doing.

Thus the spam-a-rama as we have been witnessing … Read more

Bikergirl Anonymous
Bikergirl Anonymous answered Anonymous' question

You do realize not going 'all the way' .. Is still having sex right?  I'm glad to hear you are showing some level of restraint, but .. You are playing with fire .. It's only a matter of time when you will let your guard down, and it will be all over but the cry'n.  … Read more

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Bikergirl Anonymous answered Courntey Brooks' question

It's not uncommon to be smitten with a new love interest especially at your age. The truth is .. You don't know enough about him to make that conclusion. You are only beginning to get to know each other. Because your relationship is so new it's quite possible you both are "on your best behaviour … Read more

Bikergirl Anonymous
Bikergirl Anonymous answered Anonymous' question

I'm sorry to hear that .. And I can empathize. The best way to connect with piers is to get involved with common interest groups .. Are there any in your school .. Do you have any hobbies? If not.. Then try something new .. Before you know it you may have one friend .. … Read more

Bikergirl Anonymous
Bikergirl Anonymous answered Anonymous' question

Sometimes it's easier to write them down in a letter form. You can explain to him that you find it so difficult to say what's on your mind or express what you're feeling .. And this may just help to open up the conversation.