Lambert Jaworek
Lambert Jaworek voted up Anonymous' answer

Find a different church and different denomination because OMG!  Having a crush on anyone isnt wrong in anyway for one thing.  And a letter of discipline???!!!  Seriously?!  What crazy denom do you belong to??    I've grown up in various churches, mostly Southern Baptist and there were never 'letters of discipline'.  Get out of there … Read more

Lambert Jaworek
Lambert Jaworek voted up Anonymous' answer

I would seek counciling..... The letter mentioned a "behavior PATTERN" meaning there is something deeper going on then just a crush on a Pastor.