Jerzy Michal Wielgus
Jerzy Michal Wielgus voted up Anonymous' answer

"Yes" or "No" answers are best. There's nothing insulting in that...even guys will say that's true. Otherwise, ask things that require short answers, because Didge is correct...they may get nervous and just tell you what they *think* you want to hear of it's too detailed.

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Jerzy Michal Wielgus
Jerzy Michal Wielgus voted up Anonymous' answer

"Yes" or "No" answers are best. There's nothing insulting in that...even guys will say that's true. Otherwise, ask things that require short answers, because Didge is correct...they may get nervous and just tell you what they *think* you want to hear of it's too detailed.

Don't corner them into saying things they don't want to. … Read more

Jerzy Michal Wielgus
Jerzy Michal Wielgus voted up Didge Doo's answer

Don't question, just talk. Many boys will tell you what they think you want to hear and unless you have your own polygraph it'll be hard to know when they're lying and when they're telling the truth. When you get to know them over a period of time,  through conversation, you'll be a lot closer … Read more