I think any normal man who said he found only one woman attractive would be lying -- to his partner, certainly, and probably to himself.

There's nothing wrong with finding another woman attractive. How could there be? Beauty gives pleasure to everybody. Even that evangelical zealot, C.S.Lewis, acknowledged it in A Confession. Among the things … Read more

Don't be so afraid to speak to him face-to-face. If you look at this in another light - if you never want to speak to anyone face-to-face because you might be embarrassed or whatever - you will never learn how to do it.

Practice what you would say - at home, in your bedroom - and … Read more