Pascal Porada
Pascal Porada voted up Charles Davis' answer
If you had two children one was very intelligent driven motivated and productive the other one was lazy obnoxious unproductive and a problem causer would you love them the same and how would you treat them differently?

I as well have 5 offspring, 2 are near 40, and have put themselves through school to become a lawyer and a certified accountant, both girls, My 3 boys one that is near 40 hangs drywall, the other in their 20's just got out of the military and have not made up what they're going … Read more

Pascal Porada
Pascal Porada voted up Tom Jackson's answer
If you had two children one was very intelligent driven motivated and productive the other one was lazy obnoxious unproductive and a problem causer would you love them the same and how would you treat them differently?

Well, I would hope I would be aware of this early on and started working on whatever I found missing either in my parenting or in him.

Love is a gift, not a response.  And love always tries to deliver whenever possible.  I love all of my children equally and have tried and still try … Read more