Octavio Hunderlach
Octavio Hunderlach voted up Anonymous' answer

I agree with Matt. Don't lump YOUR encounters with EVERY MAN! I have been with my husband 20 years now and he treats me like his number one...... That means anyone else is second and beyond!

Besides you get treated ONLY how YOU allow yourself to be treated!

Octavio Hunderlach
Octavio Hunderlach voted up Ty Hibb's answer

It might be good to widen your research to include a greater number of men than you are using. My experience has been just the opposite.