And the rest of the story is...?  Doesn't sound fair, but to be able to give you an honest answerI would need a lot more information.  Have you driven your mother to her wit's end a lot?  Yelling at your children is not normally a good thing unless it is to save them from injury … Read more

That doesn't sound like it is very fair of her, No.

Interesting question.  In retrospect, simply seeing films of other humans engaging in various forms of copulation activities never did very much for me.

That type of genital activity is an important but relatively minor part of true sexuial intimacy that marriage affords.  I do think true sexual intimacy can be achieved outside of marriage on occasion, … Read more

IF in a marriage one spouse is secretly looking at porn, it could cause them to have un-realstic expectations of their spouse, and disappointment - then both will feel disappointed and the relationship will suffer.