Paulina Alvin
Paulina Alvin voted up Anonymous' answer
How do you handle Anger, Bitterness and Resentment (if you ever feel them)? Especially if they are directed toward you or are supposedly "because of" you? Do they make you feel the need to be nasty toward others? How do you handle nasty people who direct those feelings toward you?

When I'm angry I remove myself from the situation and separate from anyone causes my anger. I take time to calm down and think rationally before handling myself. Blowing up on someone only angers the other person and escalates the situation. My ex wife would bottle up her emotions, lie, and say nothing was wrong … Read more

Paulina Alvin
Paulina Alvin voted up Firstname Refreshme lastname's answer
How do you handle Anger, Bitterness and Resentment (if you ever feel them)? Especially if they are directed toward you or are supposedly "because of" you? Do they make you feel the need to be nasty toward others? How do you handle nasty people who direct those feelings toward you?

It's been proven that nastiness has a trickle down effect. Your nastiness causes others to become nasty as well and so forth.

Remember : Imagine a visual of someone being nasty and pointing a finger at you. Their hand looks posed as if gun- like. While one finger points at you there are three fingers … Read more