No. After I graduated, I never wanted to see those people again.

I think I have gone to all mine. It is good to catch up with people. For me the ten year reunion was the most lame one. It was still people trying to fit into their cliques and trying to one up one another. By the time the 15th rolled around people were having kids … Read more

It means different things to different people. You'll know when the real thing happens. But a definition? An explanation? Not gonna happen.

A well-known 20th century philosopher named Oscar Hammerstein II had this to say, "Who can explain it? Who can tell you why? Fools give you reasons, wise men never try."

This is a pretty good broad picture of the process.  (I'm not absolutely  onboard with the other 7, but I still think they are useful.)

And what sealed the deal for me was when my now wife walked past a small jewelry box with a picture on the cover and remarked: "That's my favorite Renoir."

How … Read more