I don't know what "Advice People" you are talking about, but I have rarely seen "people" give the same advice. It would be impossible to follow all of their advice as it aften contradicts one another.
Yes, until another situation came up that was stressful and had to be dealt with. We will never be free of problems. We can, however, gain skills to help us deal with them so they don't become a ginormous pain.