Dawn Anonymous
Dawn Anonymous voted up PJ Stein's answer

I think his attitude might be the cause of those divorces, rather than a product of it. Frankly, I would walk, no run, from that relationship.

Dawn Anonymous
Dawn Anonymous voted up Arthur Wright's answer

The more things change the more they stay the same. The idea here goes way back when men were the breadwinners of the Household and the wife or GF was the mother and care taker of the house and its has passed on thru the ages.  Womens lib or rights mostly came to be around … Read more

Dawn Anonymous
Dawn Anonymous thanked Twallgirl Wallace's answer

It is impossible to love someone with no expectations. In any relationship you should expect something. Dating is a very serious matter. IT seems that your heart is already in when the other persons is not. How about asking him to be honest about how he truly feels for you. If he is having trouble … Read more

Dawn Anonymous
Dawn Anonymous voted up Twallgirl Wallace's answer

It is impossible to love someone with no expectations. In any relationship you should expect something. Dating is a very serious matter. IT seems that your heart is already in when the other persons is not. How about asking him to be honest about how he truly feels for you. If he is having trouble … Read more

Dawn Anonymous
Dawn Anonymous thanked Jann Nikka Nichols' answer

It's past time to have moved on. But since you have endured and enjoyed his IMO lack of respect towards you. You could continue or not. It's really is your choice.

Furthermore, there're no tip(s) to love or give love to anyone who doesn't want to love you in return. 

Dawn Anonymous
Dawn Anonymous voted up Jann Nikka Nichols' answer

It's past time to have moved on. But since you have endured and enjoyed his IMO lack of respect towards you. You could continue or not. It's really is your choice.

Furthermore, there're no tip(s) to love or give love to anyone who doesn't want to love you in return. 

Dawn Anonymous
Dawn Anonymous voted up Angela Anthony's answer

You don't need help, he's telling you what he needs you to do, all you need to do is listen!

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Dawn Anonymous thanked Arthur Wright's answer

Actions speak louder in these cases so show him and trust will follow but also he has to come to terms with it and cannot judge everyone new by his past experiences either.  This is why people shouldn't date those on the rebound as most are not totally over their past relationship and it takes … Read more

Dawn Anonymous
Dawn Anonymous thanked Tom Jackson's answer

I had a friend of mine one remind me that if you want to corral a spooked runaway calf, you better be ready to ride all over the range.

You might try something as basic as;  "Hey, I like you and I'd like to get to know you better. Given what you have been through, is … Read more

Dawn Anonymous
Dawn Anonymous voted up Bikergirl Anonymous' answer

I'm not a 'guy' .. But I can tell you one thing.  EVERYONE has experienced pain and disappointment in one way or another.  No one is emotionally pristine. Emotional pain and injury is no different than physical pain and injury .. It takes time to heal.  The deeper the cut, the longer it takes to … Read more

Dawn Anonymous
Dawn Anonymous voted up PJ Stein's answer

Not a guy, but as a person who has been hurt, the only thing that helped was time and focusing on myself. It was only when I was secure in myself and happy with myself that I was able to be in a decent and lasting relationship. So in other words there is nothing you … Read more

Dawn Anonymous
Dawn Anonymous thanked Danae Hitch's answer

Well, you cannot force someone to be in a relationship with you. If he doesn't want to be your boyfriend, for whatever reason, and this is a problem for you, this may not be the best fit for you.

Also, he could be using this as an excuse NOT to be in a relationship, but he … Read more

Dawn Anonymous
Dawn Anonymous voted up Danae Hitch's answer

Well, you cannot force someone to be in a relationship with you. If he doesn't want to be your boyfriend, for whatever reason, and this is a problem for you, this may not be the best fit for you.

Also, he could be using this as an excuse NOT to be in a relationship, but he … Read more

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Dawn Anonymous voted up Pepper pot's answer

You've just got to be who you are so that he isn't dating a pretend version of you, pretence can only be kept up so long because it's draining, then he won't know who he is dating when you have had enough of trying to be someone he may like. You need to let him … Read more

Dawn Anonymous
Dawn Anonymous voted up Pepper pot's answer

You've just got to be who you are so that he isn't dating a pretend version of you, pretence can only be kept up so long because it's draining, then he won't know who he is dating when you have had enough of trying to be someone he may like. You need to let him … Read more