together 8 yrs, brokeup for 1, Idk what he did in that yr and I dont ask, I respect his space, but he fights with me bcause he thinks I met other people, Hes the only person Ive ever been with(sex) Im 26 and we get married in a month?
He keeps accusing me of having done this or that, things that I didnt do, and I dont owe him explanations since the reason we brokeup that 1 year was he cheated. Either way, I didn't do anything and yet he makes me cry time and time again picking fights because of what he thinks I did in that year. And now we are to be married in a month, I've spent so much money in thee wedding and put all of my effort in this 8 year relationship since I was 18 yrs old. I've never been with another man and he makes my life miserable because he cant believe it, he insists in believing otherwise. what should I do? please help :( I explain to him how much this doesn't make sense, and how unfair it is. I've talked to him trying to help him understand but he just has spite for me for the things he thinks I did, (but didn't do) Im so amazed by the fact that hes the one who cheated and I can trust him but he cant trust me! and continuously makes me pay for stories in his head of what I did in that year.
If you are miserable now just imagine what's it's going to be like married 24/7.
If he can't forget the past, you need to forget the money you've spent and move on. It's only going to get worse.