Leonard Kosmider
Leonard Kosmider voted up Walt O'Reagun's answer
If I talk to a girl who's a friend of another girl I invited for a coffee (she refused) a week after the invitation, am I a bad person, like a player? Or is it ok, because the first one refused?

Hey ... As soon as the first one rejected the offer, you could make the same offer to anyone else.  That doesn't make you "a player".

Leonard Kosmider
Leonard Kosmider voted up Walt O'Reagun's answer
If I talk to a girl who's a friend of another girl I invited for a coffee (she refused) a week after the invitation, am I a bad person, like a player? Or is it ok, because the first one refused?

Hey ... As soon as the first one rejected the offer, you could make the same offer to anyone else.  That doesn't make you "a player".