Kayla Jones
Kayla Jones voted up Danae Hitch's answer

If your boyfriend made a commitment to spend that time with his son, then he needs to honor that commitment. It's natural to feel disappointment over this as you want him to be with you on your birthday. However, since I'm not sure when your birthday is, now that you know ahead of time that … Read more

Kayla Jones
Kayla Jones voted up Walter The Grump's answer

His son is and should be his priority. I understand it's disappointing, but his son comes first. I would say it's a tad bit selfish, but mostly disappointment. Knowing he has a son you should realize it's a package deal and his child is most important to him. Celebrate on a different day with him.