Ainsha Obama
Ainsha Obama voted up Dark Majinn's answer

Lower any expectations of perfections, and embrace the concept of acceptance in the same way you would want to be accepted, then STOP searching, and just take in the world around you.

We get so caught up in that Search, that those things (people) that are right in front of you often get "Over Looked".

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Ainsha Obama
Ainsha Obama voted up Tinkerbell St. Basil's answer

Weird question, huh? Well, I have a weird answer... My advice IS to give up! Perhaps you are trying too hard. Desperation is not an attractive quality and can usually be spotted by potential suitors. Concentrate on bettering yourself and be independent. Love will definitely find you and oftentimes comes when you're not looking. 💜