Nikodem Furmanek
Nikodem Furmanek voted up Barb Cala's answer

Not sure why you're giving such a big gift to someone you just "like".  Are you trying to buy his love or something?  I think it probably made him very uncomfortable .. Maybe with some strings attached. 

Nikodem Furmanek
Nikodem Furmanek voted up Rath Keale's answer

$100.00 is just over the top!  It's just too much.  He isn't your fiancée or long term boyfriend.  He was right to refuse.  You would have been putting him in a position where he would owe you.  He doesn't want that.