Sacha Maller
Sacha Maller voted up Sharron Prestcott's answer
I told my gf i needed space since I've been extremely busy with school and taking care of my grandma. She got upset, cried for 2 hours, told me how I've mistreated her. And accused me of cheating/ when I didn't and told everyone. Am I a douche?

No you're not a douche, she sounds like a possessive girl she should be more understanding of your situation.  This is not about her it's about what is going on in your life.

Crying for 2 hours is a drama queen and telling everyone you've cheated is just vicious, she should be encouraging you to … Read more

Sacha Maller
Sacha Maller voted up Barb Cala's answer
I told my gf i needed space since I've been extremely busy with school and taking care of my grandma. She got upset, cried for 2 hours, told me how I've mistreated her. And accused me of cheating/ when I didn't and told everyone. Am I a douche?

Sounds like she's just trying to make you feel bad .. And she succeeded.  You have to do what's right for you and your family first.  If she can't understand that .. She's not the right girl for you.