Wilhelm Ujma
Wilhelm Ujma voted up Barb Cala's answer
I told my gf i needed space since I've been extremely busy with school and taking care of my grandma. She got upset, cried for 2 hours, told me how I've mistreated her. And accused me of cheating/ when I didn't and told everyone. Am I a douche?

Sounds like she's just trying to make you feel bad .. And she succeeded.  You have to do what's right for you and your family first.  If she can't understand that .. She's not the right girl for you.

Wilhelm Ujma
Wilhelm Ujma voted up SuperFly Original's answer
I'm terrified of getting a horrible disease, what can I do?

Huh this is the second time I talked to someone about this actually.

Do you obsess over it? That is a sign of OCD possibly. Otherwise, sounds like anxiety to me. Might just be having a small phase that will pass in time.

Advice: Try to live and focus in the present and try listening to your … Read more

Wilhelm Ujma
Wilhelm Ujma voted up SuperFly Original's answer
I'm terrified of getting a horrible disease, what can I do?

Huh this is the second time I talked to someone about this actually.

Do you obsess over it? That is a sign of OCD possibly. Otherwise, sounds like anxiety to me. Might just be having a small phase that will pass in time.

Advice: Try to live and focus in the present and try listening to your … Read more