lucjan Sobiecki
lucjan Sobiecki voted up Soul Fly's answer

That is a very valid concern. However if she is able to provide for you, your siblings and herself she may not have the need for a job. She may already have enough money to provide by other means, like an inheritance, insurance collections, lottery winnings,  beneficiary collections, high interest payouts or even stock earnings, … Read more

lucjan Sobiecki
lucjan Sobiecki voted up Barb Cala's answer

Where is your father in all of this?  Is he in your life at all?  In order to know how to respond, we'd really need to hear your Mom's side of this.  If you are really concerned, go to another family member or other trusted adult.  Strangers on a website can't tell you what you … Read more