Marylin Calisto
Marylin Calisto voted up Tom Jackson's answer
At what age is it inappropriate that my daughter has two boyfriends? She says my opinion is invalid because I cheated on her dad whereas she's honest with both guys, but I think she's side-stepping the point.

Well, having a boyfriend when you are already married is in no way similar to being single and having two (or more) boyfriends.

And given the time it may take to find the man you are going to marry makes "sequential" rather than "concurrent" relationships impractical.

Why not be the successful suitor by standing out from the … Read more

Marylin Calisto
Marylin Calisto voted up Walt O'Reagun's answer
At what age is it inappropriate that my daughter has two boyfriends? She says my opinion is invalid because I cheated on her dad whereas she's honest with both guys, but I think she's side-stepping the point.

Actually ... Your daughter is correct.

As long as everybody is aware, it's not "cheating".

In fact, it used to be quite common that females would have multiple "suitors" at the same time.  After all, the point of dating is to determine the type of person you want to spend your life with.  And if you limit … Read more