At 14, you're probably still in the process of discovering who you are and what you want in life. You're certainly not experienced enough in your own sexuality to know if you're "gay" or not. There's no rush to decide at this age. You might think your gay friends are fine .. But that doesn't … Read more
I don't have a good answer for you because I've never been in that situation. I don't find the need to announce my sexuality to the world. In any event, you should ask your gay friends about their experiences in this and see if they can offer you any hints. Good luck.