Penny Kilday
Penny Kilday voted up Dark Majinn's answer

The three "C's" is what is needed . . .
Communication

Communication

Communication

Why is "Sex - No Sex" an "I'll stay with him" . . . Thing?

Apparently, you've let this go on too long, and now it is resentment that you have. Engage in discussion . . . Healthy discussion is sharing feeleings good or bad.