Julie Pham
Julie Pham voted up Virginia Lou's answer

Dear Anonymous,

I don't think there is a really good way to do that.

And that can make it difficult for someone who is themselves LGBT, and not sure how/whether to approach someone of the same sex, to see if there is the possibility of more than friendship. But:

1) When GLBT issues are in the news, that … Read more

Julie Pham
Julie Pham thanked Didge Doo's answer

It's better to mind your own business unless they offer to enlighten you. People are people, no matter what their sexual orientation.

On the other hand, and this may possibly help, I once met a guy who kept referring to somebody he called "my partner". After about three "my partners" I just asked, "What's your … Read more

Julie Pham
Julie Pham thanked Virginia Lou's answer

Dear Anonymous,

I don't think there is a really good way to do that.

And that can make it difficult for someone who is themselves LGBT, and not sure how/whether to approach someone of the same sex, to see if there is the possibility of more than friendship. But:

1) When GLBT issues are in the news, that … Read more

Julie Pham
Julie Pham thanked Arthur Wright's answer

First there is a difference between obsession and having feelings for someone with being "obsessed with someone" actually the worst thing you can do as it will consume your whole  life and all feelings go out the window.  Now you could be infatuated here with your friend which is a mixed bag of feelings and … Read more

Julie Pham
Julie Pham voted up Arthur Wright's answer

First there is a difference between obsession and having feelings for someone with being "obsessed with someone" actually the worst thing you can do as it will consume your whole  life and all feelings go out the window.  Now you could be infatuated here with your friend which is a mixed bag of feelings and … Read more

Julie Pham
Julie Pham voted up HappyTwo BeHereTwo's answer

Hi Julie.  Welcome to Blurtit!  We really can't answer this.  We'd just be speculating. 

If you're feeling lonely, you can reach out to find more friendship connections. You can look around your school and city for clubs to join, or check for local activities and festivals to attend. 

I'm glad you've joined our community! Read more