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Kelly Taylor answered

we started talking again about two weeks ago. He made it an effort to tell me he loved me, wanted me and never wanted to lose me again. Now those comments have stopped and there hasnt really been much of an effort to see me. I love him and I do believe he loves me … Read more

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Kelly Taylor thanked Tom Jackson's answer

Probably.

But memorize this:

Some areas of life are so important and overwhelming that people can be expected to act for and in their own best interest and to assign credit or blame for success or failure in the same way.

The type of relationship you were in, along with the history and expectations that each of … Read more

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Kelly Taylor thanked Cookie Roma's answer

I agree that it will take time.  That said, you would likely find it helpful if you'd do something to get out of your own head.  Like do some kind of volunteer work.  Helping others can be the best therapy.

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Kelly Taylor thanked YoWanna Cook's answer

My friend, it takes time. It has only been a month. You really cared for him and it hurts. You have to allow yourself time to cry. If the crying turns into depression you may need a councillor to help you talk things out. You can not go under it, over it, or around it.... … Read more