Most guys (I'm a guy) when they first start having sex don't have a clue about taking it slow and getting the girl ready/wet, I know I didn't have a clue and just wanted to put it in there as soon as possible.  Then I had a girlfriend who taught me how to take my time, … Read more

Take Gingko Biloba, an over the counter herb you can get in most vitamin stores or pharmacies.  If you are a male, it allows better blood flow through smooth muscles in your extremities, such as your penis.  This is the same way viagra works, but Gingko is natural.