Ok I understand what you are saying too. But what about college? And does your boyfriend make enough to take care of you, him, and a baby? I thought the man I was with when I had my daughter was going to be there helping me, and that didn't work out , so I had to do it all by myself with the help of my mother every now and then. Don't get me wrong, I am sure you have a great and wonderful sister who was truly blessed to be able to make it with her daughter. Well all I can ask you to do is truly pray about it and you do what you truly feel is best. Babies are a blessing even when things are not always going the way we want them to. May GOD bless you and keep you and if you decide to then just remember to thank GOD for your blessings. Wish you the best!