OK you really want to know what I would do in that situation......Here it goes Iwould do either of two things get my hat and say so long or show him the door and inform him it swings both ways, just like you came in open it and GOOD BYE......the best to you because no one comes before me to treat me any way...HUGS

Oh come now not to put you down but summons up the real woman in you and if thinking or asking is cheating we all are guilty, and have you ever thought or ask about anyone you had seen or met in years gone by, I think you are reading too much in all of this and letting your mind control your thoughts, give yourself a hug and keep moving forward, right now you seem stuck on old stuff, come on time is still moving dismiss the thought, the event etc. And move on to important things.......the best to you