TGAR - Rank: 3161 | Total Points: 577
04 Jan 2008
Offline
About Me
Happily married terminally broke
My Interests
Hey stranger!! it's been awhile. I'm just checking up on you, hoping all is well. I hope to here from you soon. Take care.
That is wonderful!!! I wish I could hug you. You would not believe what happened to me on Sunday... I was working, and there was this large family shopping. Well, I was tidying up the store when I walked up front by the entrance where we have a chair for tired feet (or bored significant others) and out of nowhere, I caught eyes with a little-and I mean little, frail goooooold.... woman sitting in the chair. She had to be in her 90's and it was obvious she spoke no English but,we caught eyes & it was like I was in a trance. I somewhat snapped out of it and smiled at her. I saw my mom in her Tgar!!! I know this sounds crazy but I saw her eyes, and her nose. Mind you, my mom had just turned 57 when she passed. The sensations I was feeling was unexplainable. This literally took my breath away and brought tears to my eyes.....OUT OF NOWHERE!!! It was so amazing & I can't stop thinking about it.
Hello my friend, It was nice to hear from you-as always. My weekend was quite hectic. Saturday was like "Grand Central Station" here, which was very nice. We had visitors throughout the day. The weather was decent so my boys were able to do a lot of fishing-which they love. As for mothers day, I had to work a full day open-close at my store. I was newly promoted to management. I work around 30 hrs. give or take per week (nights & weekends). I leave when my husband comes home from his job. I do it that way for my kids & myself. I won't do sitters or daycare. My children are my responsibility & I don't want to miss a thing!!!
Thank you for clarifying everything with me regarding your relationship with your father. So, this was going on long before the passing of your mom? I am glad you spent mothers day with your children. That's what it's all about right??? On to another subject, I feel your sorrow. There are still nights when I cry & cry especially when i'm feeling down & out about life in general. That is only natural. She was in all honesty the only one I spoke with when I was feeling that way. I never thought I'd see the day when I would be able to look back on our past, both good & bad but I can do that now. Memories to me is what's keeping her alive.
Hi Tgar, Just thinking about you. Shout at me when you get a chance. I would like to know how you are doing.
Happy Belated Mothers Day Tgar, I was wanting to get back to you yesterday but I worked all day:( Hey, Please don't feel guilty for talking about whats going on in your mind/heart with me. We share alot in common and like you, I need to release my thoughts too. Like I said before, this is good for the both of us. I really don't have anybody to talk with about what I'm really feeling so this is truely nice.
I totally understand what you are saying. I immediately became the one who had to take over everything. Pretending to be so strong for my boys & everyone else while they wept and questioned her death. I suppose all of that was because I was her only daughter and our bond was so strong. Trying to heal and look forward was next to impossible. You see, I greatly resemble my mom in every way, shape, & form. Our voices were similar too. I am sure that makes it hard for everybody when they see or talk to me. All I can do is take this healing process one day at a time. My brothers "seem" to be doing alright so that makes it a little easier for me. I've learned to accept that I will never be able see her again...only in my dreams which used to be devistatingly heartbreaking but now with each dream I have, I am able to physically see, feel, smell, and speak to her, even though our time together is so brief. It feels so amazing.
Hi Tgar, I am one of the blirters who answered your question regarding your family and mothers day. I hope you don't mind, but I put in a request to add you to my list of friends. I think this would be good for the both of us.
I have to task as the group leader this whole week we all will be supporting our fav group so go on chat sights or ur myspace or something talk about them post links and tour dates get the ppl into them READY~GETSET~GO~~~~BABYYYYY
You can shout at him/her, if you log in/register.
Is It Better To Do The Right Thing Or The Smart Thing?
I had a big blow up with my Dad. Now I don't want to celebrate Mother's Day with the rest of my family. My Mom passed away 8 weeks ago and we are all heart broken. My Dads has chosen to be a big jerk and...
in Family asked 2 years ago - 4 answers
How Do You Deal With The Death Of Your Mother?
My emotions range from sadness to heartbreaking pain then i can feel my mother come over me and i get a glimmer of understanding. This is the hardest thing i have ever had to do.
in Dating & Love asked 2 years ago - 3 answers
How Can I Try To Contact My Mother That Just Passed Away?
My mother just died on the 10th. I feel her with me. The other night i thought i heard her voice. My heart is breaking and i want to try to make sense of a healthy woman leaving me in an instant.
in Legal asked 2 years ago - 4 answers
Why Does My Blood Pressure Drop In The Afternoon?
I am trying to maintain a healthy level, ideally 120/70, but i was up to 2 pills a day because it was high 150/90. Then it was dropping. Now i am taking half pill and it still seems low, 98/68. Is it...
in Medicines & Treatments asked 2 years ago - 3 answers
How Do You Incorporate Bananas Into Pancake Batter?
I have a few brown ones and want to try and make them. Can i use a ready mix? Any suggestions would be appreciated. I want to knock my husbands socks off.
in Recipes asked 2 years ago - 3 answers
How Does Water Retention Affect Joints?
Doctor gave me a water pill and i am feeling better. Just wondering how this happens. I am on a low sodium diet.
in Womens Health asked 2 years ago - 1 answer
Where Can I Find The Value Of NFL Trading Cards?
I have some 20 year old cards i want to sell.
in Personal Finance asked 2 years ago - 2 answers
What Do I Do If My Child Is Obsessed With Watching Tv?
They react badly if i curtail their tv time. Two hours a day is just not happening. Now they have Internet access and they are becoming obsessed with you tube. I don't want to be a dictator but i am...
in Child Discipline asked 2 years ago - 4 answers
Where Is The Best Place To Sell An Unregistered Vehicle?
I have a van without tags that i want to sell "as is". Is that possible
in Selling Cars asked 2 years ago - 2 answers
Does Marijuana Contain Carcinogens Like Cigarette Smoke?
Can i develop lung problems from smoking marijuana as bad a tobacco?
in Marijuana asked 2 years ago - 8 answers
How Can I Exercise My Abdominal Area When I Have Just Had 4 Hernia's Removed From That Area?
I need to do simple everyday tasks and i am afraid i will hurt myself. The doctor told me one more hernia could seriously injure me. He also gave me a 15 pound maximum lifting restriction. I am wondering...
in Womens Health asked 2 years ago - 1 answer
What Is The Formula To Determine Kilowatt Hours Of An Industrial Battery?
I need this information for work as an industrial battery technician
in Engineering Science asked 2 years ago - 1 answer
New to blurtit. Need info on post-op care for abdominal hernia
in Health & Beauty asked 2 years ago - 1 answer
Points Activity
| Activity | Total | Points |
|---|---|---|
| Question | 13 | 0 |
| Answer | 25 | 210 |
| Ratings Received | 21 | 21 |
| Ratings Given | 26 | 26 |
| Others | - | 320 |
| Points Today | - | 0 |
| Total Points | - | 577 |
Pictures (0)
No pictures available
