hello lil lady, i do not come around the comp much any more, out side type of guy. want to say hello an bless you, char

jul I'm so glad things have turned around for you, i hope things continue as well for you, god bless you with a smile, charlie

Thank you for your shout. My sister and her husband have watched my daughter once, and she absolutely did not do well...I ended up having to go back and pick her up an hour later because she cried so hard she threw up! Her father is pretty much out of the picture due to a violent breakup and his selfish, childish ways. He won't even work to support himself, so child support is pretty much not going to happen. As far as government assistance goes, I am receiving TANF, but they told me that I cannot receive it for my second child for whatever reason. I am trying to get a grant to go back to school so that I can get on my feet and support my children and myself instead of having to rely on my parents to provide a roof for us. I know that it will be difficult, but I am a very strong person mentally and I can get through a tough situation. I realize how lucky I really am to be so strong and to have my girls, who I've prayed for since childhood. Thanks again, Julie. Elle (=

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hello jul, wow a lots happen with you sence iv been here.I pray for the best to evolve for you and he.tears are to be expected. it sounds like its been an old wound for some time and cleanig out the infected relation ship will be quite tender for a while and its goung to be easy to want to turn back and return were you came from. i know its hard but i would say stay un comited for at least 6 months, you have a life time, six months is just a mustard seed. I am feeling you, my soul is so lonely so i understand. you must of found an apartment. you will enjoy parts of being single, no one to answer to or baby sett sorta speak.but if you dont find some healthy substtute you may feel the yern to return the situration you came from.God bless you an may god whatch over you. charlie