I would tell that ungrateful family member it's time for you to hit the road and don't let the door hit you in your a$s on the way out.
Friends what do you think about family that live with you for free but yet can sit back and make rude remarks?
If you like where you are tell them to move on.
If you are ready for a new place go now. Since it’s all in your name they will have to do something anyway.
I wouldn’t put up with the rudeness, not one minute.
Well I'd kick that person out.
I agree with Tiger, RIK, and willie. This family must be painful
Darren my friend, ANY situation we tell you is gonna be easier said then done. You are in a very difficult situation. Living with people gets old quick. If you can make it on your own, you gotta do what's best for you. Grandma is gonna have to come up with a different solution when you move out. Maybe have granddaughter get a job. Either way, that's on them. You gotta do what's best for you. If you can't move out yet, unfortunately you gotta find a way to coexist. 😔
If it's your place, I would give anyone 18 or older the option to contribute or move out. And I wouldn't be sleeping on a recliner unless the the beds were all taken by elderly members of the household.
Well they sound ungrateful and are taking your kindness for granted.
Sleeping on a recliner can't be good for your back.
Time to turn up the screws and have a family discussion.
if there doing something mean like that and living in your home its time they go. Its not right for a good person like you to let them in but there going to say mean things and I believe there being disrespectful and that's not right for you.
You say family. Are they really?
First ... Is it an apartment?
If so - I bet the rental agreement has language about how long a "guest" can stay. So you could use that to get rid of the freeloaders, who aren't on the lease.
Second ... Is it your house?
If so - even though most states won't allow you to kick them out due to how long they've already been living there ... You can start eviction proceedings.
Third ... Move out.
Chances are, if you are paying all the bills and buying all the food, you have more than enough earnings to get your own place.
"Second, third, fourth cousins"---sheesh! (used to express disbelief or exasperation)
Hell, I once had my wife's sister living with us for 6 months about 10 years ago---and I still have not fully recovered and probably never will.
These people you have living with you are "emotional vampires" and will suck all your emotional energy out of you.
This is an emergency---get these people out of your house now.
There are shelters that can take them. You have done more than you can be expected to sustain.
It's OK to bend over backward to help someone---but not to the point where you injure your own back.
