carlos Striker
carlos Striker answered Unique Hold's question

You're virgin? You are a virgin. Raising has no relevance and more so being a man has nothing to do with sex. If your girlfriend doesn't want to go with you is fine. Sooner or later somebody else will. But you don't have to keep advertising you are a virgin.

Call me Z
Call me Z answered Unique Hold's question

Based on your long history of lovelorn questions, and the obvious social naïveté that spawned them, it is clear a) that your friend is right about you; and, b) why you are still a virgin.

We can only guess what you are like in person, but as Tom suggests, the low assessment of your maturity … Read more

Tom  Jackson
Tom Jackson answered Unique Hold's question

There are 3 sentences in your question.

They are not connected in any obvious way.

Are you a virgin at 24 because of a moral conviction, or were your parents so scared of your being in a sexual relationship that they did not allow you sufficient interaction with females to develop sufficient comfort when being with them … Read more

Darik Majoren
Darik Majoren answered Unique Hold's question

I find that "Really Being a Man" falls under several criteria:

  • Being responsible for your self and your actions both good and bad
  • Have a code of honor. Even though it may not be the same as someone else's if you stand by IT and your word, then that's something.
  • Make the hard choices yourself. The really difficult … Read more
PJ Stein
PJ Stein answered Unique Hold's question

You are a man when you stand up for your convictions. There are many childish males having sex without taking any responsibility for their actions.perhaps the woman you are seeing is not the right one for you and you need to move on. You need to find someone who appreciates you and your beliefs.

Firstname Refreshme lastname
Firstname Refreshme lastname answered max atwood's question

Just plead.. I -don't-know-how-it-got-there...my-friend-used-the-computer with the straightest slightly shocked facial expression that you can achieve. ; - )