Anneen Hay
Anneen Hay thanked Anonymous' answer

Just say you rarely have guests over and when you do its only family or close friends you know well.    This guy sounds odd actually asking to eat at your house. He is either very socially inept or a big weirdo.    

Be careful of him.  If he asks again you'll just have to be … Read more

Anneen Hay
Anneen Hay thanked Rooster Cogburn's answer

Like Cookie said : Just say NO ! It isn't good in the first place to fraternize with other employees anyway. Work is work and home is home. Once you let one person in, the others are going to see it as favoritism. Just tell him that your husband and you like your privacy when … Read more