Tommie Pappenheim
Tommie Pappenheim voted up Lia Tan's answer

It simply means that he doesn't want a relationship. I know that him flirting with you and all that gives you hope that he likes you but the fact is that if he really wanted to be your boyfriend, he would have been after you told him that you liked him. And since he isn't, … Read more

Tommie Pappenheim
Tommie Pappenheim voted up Rath Keale's answer

When a guy tells you he is not ready for a relationship, you should believe it.  That is the BIG warning that he knows he would not be a good partner for you.  He flirts with you because that is his communication pattern.  He likes you as a friend and jokes with you this way, … Read more

Tommie Pappenheim
Tommie Pappenheim voted up Rooster Cogburn's answer

Not unless he started to point the gun at me. If I yelled at him to put the gun down and he made a move at me, yes, I would shoot first and ask questions later. But I wouldn't just shoot him because he had a gun. I would try my best to get the … Read more

Tommie Pappenheim
Tommie Pappenheim voted up Rooster Cogburn's answer

Not unless he started to point the gun at me. If I yelled at him to put the gun down and he made a move at me, yes, I would shoot first and ask questions later. But I wouldn't just shoot him because he had a gun. I would try my best to get the … Read more