Nataniel Knapik
Nataniel Knapik voted up Sharron Prestcott's answer

I'd say yes you're a friend to her along with her other friends.  Usually asking a girl to homecoming means you escort her there and it's understood she's with you.  This is not what's happening in this situation. 

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Nataniel Knapik
Nataniel Knapik voted up Deston Elite's answer

Right now, I would say you're not very high on her list of worries. It seems to me she's more worried about hanging out with her friends than she is going to the dance with you. You're probably very heavy in the friend zone right now.