Bartek Sobotka voted up I am Life.....'s answer 12/13/2015 My Best Friend Just Told Me He's Gay, ( And I'm Quite Homophobic) How Can I Tell Him I Don't Want To Be His Friend Anymore? Be honest, is it just that you are homophobic or you are ashamed of being a friend of a guy.... Be clear my friend and if you are then straightaway tell him that you cannot continue with him as a friend as this is a big problem...