Ellamae Arya
Ellamae Arya voted up Didge Doo's answer
If you had two children one was very intelligent driven motivated and productive the other one was lazy obnoxious unproductive and a problem causer would you love them the same and how would you treat them differently?

I had five kids, each different from the others. One is trans-sexual, one is religious (he doesn't understand his brother/sister), the others are fairly unremarkable. They've all been good at the sport of their choice (it varied) and they all lead reasonably normal lives (yes, including that one).

As kids we treated them pretty much … Read more

Ellamae Arya
Ellamae Arya voted up Charles Davis' answer
If you had two children one was very intelligent driven motivated and productive the other one was lazy obnoxious unproductive and a problem causer would you love them the same and how would you treat them differently?

I as well have 5 offspring, 2 are near 40, and have put themselves through school to become a lawyer and a certified accountant, both girls, My 3 boys one that is near 40 hangs drywall, the other in their 20's just got out of the military and have not made up what they're going … Read more