Jerzy Michal Bogucki
Jerzy Michal Bogucki voted up Allo Vera's answer

I'd give it some time and see how you feel, there is no time limit on revenge in this way you can hand the consequences over to the universe for a bit rather than consuming yourself in anger. No one thinks clearly in anger and so if you do react you are bound to get … Read more

Jerzy Michal Bogucki
Jerzy Michal Bogucki voted up Danae Hitch's answer

I understand the feeling that you want to exact revenge on another person. Who doesn't want to "get back" at someone for making you feel bad, made you embarrassed, stole your boyfriend, etc.?

However, once you give into that mindset, you have essentially handed over the controls of yourself to the other person. You're saying that … Read more