Hal Yager
Hal Yager voted up Bikergirl Anonymous' answer
This feels like incest to me: He was my boyfriend for 4.5 years, and my best friend for 7.... Now he is in a relationship with my daughter (he is 50, she is 27). They have been together for 6 months. Is it wrong? And what can I do?

Nothing you can do .. They are both adults.

Regretably they have snared you up in this 'relationship' as hurtful as that is .. And yes .. That is wrong on a few levels because of how it hurts YOU.  However, it is not incest as he is not her father or even step father … Read more

Hal Yager
Hal Yager voted up Anonymous' answer
This feels like incest to me: He was my boyfriend for 4.5 years, and my best friend for 7.... Now he is in a relationship with my daughter (he is 50, she is 27). They have been together for 6 months. Is it wrong? And what can I do?

Talk about ultimate betrayal! SHAME on HIM! He should know better and have some sort of moral compass! Your daughter is just a tool..... Being used. He is sick and you shouldn't want to have anything to do with him. The only thing you can do is be there for your daughter when he dumps … Read more