felixks gamrewskie
felixks gamrewskie voted up Danae Hitch's answer

Just for argument's sake, say you're a man or woman that fears commitment. If you have a relationship with someone that is already married, there's no way that your relationship with that person will lead to marriage, unless they actually divorce their spouse.

I don't know if you consider that a benefit, but merely a reason … Read more

felixks gamrewskie
felixks gamrewskie voted up dragonfly fortysix's answer

For the people who take up with a married person there must be some benefit or else people wouldn't do it. Whatever those benefits are I think they must be very short term.

When mistresses have been interviewed they talk about the financial benefits, and the benefit of only seeing that person at his best. … Read more