Pain has always fuelled me and pushed me forward , Fueled me really , I don't know if that's a good thing or a healthy thing .. But i am enamoured with pain :) I love all my pain , it pushes me forward:) I love pain .. Amour ;)
The thing about pain is it gives us prospective. Emotional pain lets us appreciate the good times. Physical pain lets you know whn there isn't something right with your body. Both are needed.
As the saying goes, it takes two to tango. One may want to stay in, the other wants out...
some people don't stay together forever.